My ex text me tuesday saying he wont be able to pick up for visitation friday and said to have her ready sat and he will.pick her up than. Am i able to deny and cancel his visitation? I had to call out of work resulting in a write up becuse i didnt have a babysitter for that day (he picks her up from school) Am i allowed to cancell his request? This would be the third time doing this. It such an inconvenience and i feel horrible for my daughter who knows its dads weekend and he cant come